Filming some videos soon on Budget weddings

I am on a budget. Like most Americans and most of the world. My fiance and I have decided to go into marriage debt free. We both don't understand why couples stress each other out when it is a day to celebrate and have fun with your friends and family! I hope I can share some really interesting but helpful tips to help future brides who are budgets! I'm going to document every single step of the way! I'm so excited AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH! :) stay tuned in

Finalized Wedding Date

I'm so happy to announce that my future husband and I have a set date and place!
Saturday November 10th, 2012.
Ceremony @ (will announce later)
Reception dinner @ (Will announce later)
Reception party @ (WAL)

I'm so freaking excited and realived! The lady at the venue and my friends who are helping me are saints! I have so much more to do now! AHAAHAHAHAHAAHA I'm so giggly! :)

Wedding Nightmare

So, I don't know if this happens to all brides...however, this one had a horrible dream about the wedding day. Let me start from the beginning.

I'm in a car and a few seconds later I arrive with my father and mother (who have been divorced for awhile....and I don't see them sitting next to each other in real time.) I step out of a black car looking out into a field in which the seating and isles are being put together. As I over fill with joy, I turn to my right and there's a full wedding off to the right of me. WTF! is my thought....I wanted (in the dream) for this to be a secluded wedding. As I complain to the property owner (because he's there for some reason) He said "they're wrapping it up in 20min. You still have 2 hrs till you start. It should be fine". I crossed my arms. Then one of my close friends came to tell me that the catering person we had isn't coming....so we'll have to figure out something else for food and cake. AHHHH! I started to have a panic attack, end of dream.

It's so weird that I would fear something like this? I don't even want a wedding outside (it will be too cold in November) What the crap was this dream about? AH maybe symbolism? Now that I think about it...these are all possible things that could happen on a wedding day. Time to make plan B in case things get like this. ::phew:: glad none of this really happened to me.

back at it

So, I'm back at this bloggy thing. I need to keep everyone informed on what is about to happen. This transition (I hope) will be very smooth.
First off, I'M GETTING MARRIED! Finally after 5-6yrs of trial and tribulations, Shadow and I have decided to officially be a family unit. I'm so glad that there are no children in the equation making this decision for us. Seriously, how many people do you know that get married because of children? How many of those marriages work? It's a pretty sad statistic when you look at it....but hey! It's out there and happens everyday. Anyhow, I'm glad we've waited this long. We were able to work through all the little newly wedded crap early. For example, shoes in the middle of the floor, never picking up laundry, dishes, stop being lazy, set goals, save money, have patience, be understanding, Love unselfishly, try putting your spouses needs first before your own. These are all things that we've pretty much mastered. Even in arguing we tend to squabble like an old woman and her husband...however there is absolutely no violence and we always close out our arguments (so we don't have them tread over a long period of time).


All in all, I'm happy to be sharing my experience with everyone and even possible helping future brides with my tips that I have to share!
Stay posted :)